Talking Points
Arguments & Conversation Guides for Productive Political Dialogue
Move beyond shouting past each otherβthese talking points help you find common ground, ask better questions, and have conversations that actually go somewhere
How to Use These Talking Points
Find Common Ground
Start with what you agree on. Most topics have shared values buried under partisan talking points.
Ask Questions
Use the bridging questions to move from "my side vs. your side" to "how do we solve this together?"
Reframe
Reject false dichotomies. The "productive framing" shows how to escape unproductive arguments.
Ground Rules for Productive Conversations
β DO
- βAsk genuine questions to understand, not to trap
- βAcknowledge valid points from the other side
- βFocus on specific policies, not character attacks
- βLook for win-win solutions
- βBe willing to say "I don't know" or "That's a good point"
β DON'T
- βAssume bad faith or question motives
- βUse labels like "socialist," "fascist," "snowflake," or "deplorable"
- βWhataboutism or changing the subject when challenged
- βTreat politics like team sports
- βExpect to "win" the conversation
Ready to Have Better Conversations?
These talking points are starting points, not scripts. Adapt them to your conversations. The goal isn't to convert everyone to your viewβit's to find common ground and make progress.
Democracy requires citizens who can disagree productively. Let's prove it's still possible.